The BF reacts.

I thought it was too easy.

So the BF reacted today, asked a couple questions. Nothing devastating or anything and we're still together. Two of the questions I expected, one was a little odd, asking me something "if I feel solely like a woman" and "are you happy like that". But I guess it's how he's coming to grips with it.

I'm aware that it could always go kaptusky at any time, but this relationship will go south fast if I have that kind of attitude. One of my T friends had 5 or 6 relationships before getting one that survived the news, so I'm aware the odds are against me...

The bomb was a dud?

In an anti-climactic event, we met at the nearby mall, while he was finishing up his food court meal, told him I'm T (and incidentally, that I DIDN'T injure myself skating) and...he was surprised first of all, but said specifically "we're still boyfriend and girlfriend" and within 30 minutes we got it out of our system. Life continued on as normal for the rest of yesterday and today.

WTF? I seem to have a gift for dumb luck in my life, and this takes the cake.

Not complaining, though!

Dropping the bomb

Going off on a tangent, but it's been almost two months since the big day. I've had a sorta-boyfriend for over a month now, and since he's started getting on the kissy side, I have no choice but to a. drop the bomb now, or b. keep it secret longer and drive myself mad with stress.

Never told someone before. Not quite sure how it's going to go...